Welcome to Just One More Thing — the bonus moment after the mic technically turns off, where I ask my For the Love guests a few extra questions. This is where things often get even more personal, more real, and more profound in just a couple of minutes.
Today, I’m sharing this thoughtful moment with Vanessa Marin—licensed sex therapist, writer, and co-host of the wildly popular Pillow Talks podcast with her husband, Xander. In our full episode, we talked about reigniting intimacy, unlearning shame, and giving yourself permission to say yes to pleasure in midlife. (Trust me, this one’s a must-listen—here’s the link).
But this extra moment? Vanessa shares the mindset shift that came from one of the biggest decisions in her life—choosing not to have children—and how it reframed her entire relationship with the idea of regret. It’s honest, insightful, and incredibly grounding for anyone standing at a life crossroads.
Watch this Just One More Thing moment with Vanessa—and hear more of her wisdom in the full episode right here: Listen to the full episode
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